You were there by yourself? Next year sounds like a plan.

Yes, exactly! I find this notion so weird that people who aren't "normal" (as in not sticking to the norm) sexually have to look different as well.

I actually scared someone once by explaining that a group of bikers, all burly men with beards and muscles etc, were totally gay. It was some leather or bear party in Hamburg, so the inner city was full of them, butthey weren't seen as gay because they looked like "real men". I hate gender stereotpyes.